š§”šThe Christmas holiday period will have brought up many feelings in the collective, often relating to family and Christmases past. If you have ever felt invalidated, bring yourself validation here to feel loved. Your feelings ae real, they're feelings that you can honour. Let this part of you know that every single feeling that you've had is your heart letting you know your truth. It's the Divine speaking to you through your heart. It's either a call for Love, or it's an expression of Love. If it's a call for Love right now, ask this part of you what you need in this place to feel loved. Take a moment to validate and accept yourself as you are. The healing that's happening right now feels really pivotal, especially if you've been tolerating a lot of things, and really, the only way is to heal all the way through it so you can transcend. If you're in a situation where you're tolerating anything, it's not what the Divine has got planned.š
ššŖTake your power back and recognise that peace and Love is your power, nobody has the right to diminish or invalidate you. Choose to validate all of your feelings. If any part of you was ever invalidated, what we don't want to do is just rush past like this place doesn't matter. It's absolutely crucial that you slow right down and are deliberately present with yourself here. Choose to release your relationship with invalidation. Receive unconditional Love here instead, it's yours. In order to receive Love, we have to say no to what's not wanted. If we continue to tolerate the old pattern, we're not actually moving in that place, because it's being allowed to continue. Give yourself as much Love and attention as you need here. We have to invite the Divine back into the place where we chose fear, the Divine can't let herself in, we must do that part.š»
šµšThis time period is about identifying relationships that we've had with behaviours that we didn't want. We have to recognise we've been choosing that and then we choose to let it go. Tuning out the white noise from a bad relationship is not sufficient, it has to be healed through. Getting used to it doesn't mean that any of it's OK. It's about transcending certain relationships and environments, it's about saying no to it. The way to transcend it is to heal and everything naturally falls into place. You're a Divine chid of the Universe. The Divine created you the way that you are, you're perfect and Divine, you never have to change anything about yourself. Give yourself permission to be yourself, honour yourself the way you are. Choose to receive unconditionally loving relationships. They can come in once we let go of the ones we don't want. We must let go of what is not wanted to receive what is wanted.š±
ššWe take as much time as you need when it comes to loving ourselves, we don't want a fast lover, we want a nice tender, attentive lover. You don't want your Twin Flame to come along and hug you for two seconds and go, you want a nice long hug. We don't want a lover who rushes, and that will reflect in the way you love yourself, so take it slow when you love, be a patient lover with yourself. Not a quick lover but a slow, thorough lover. Cultivate greater presence with yourself, don't whizz through with the self Love and say you're done, it may be just because we're not used to being loved thoroughly, we may think, ah, here's a bit of Love, that'll do. How would you like your Twin Flame to hold you? You want to be held properly, thoroughly, without any pats, just arms all the way round. That's what we need to give ourselves, because that Love comes through them in the way that we've loved ourselves.š
ššIt's the same person, you and your Twin Flame, it's the same way of loving, so if you're too quick a lover with yourself, your Twin Flame's going to be too quick too. Especially if we've been denied Love in those places, we need to be really attentive. Let's stay longer here, let's love deeper. Increase the Love then thousand times, ten million times, there's no end to the Love. ask yourself if you're forgetting that bit, are you not realising you can have more Love?š
ššYour Twin Flame is yourself, whenever you see yourself as not being with your Twin Flame, they'll deny they're your Twin Flame. When you believe you're with your Twin Flame, you'll have no trouble attracting them. Some souls incarnating experience enough contrast to attract their Twin flame but not enough contrast to actually have their Twin Flame, so they experience not being able to be with their Twin Flame. This experience is a great opportunity to share your Love for your Twin Flame by choosing inside of yourself to be with your Twin Flame. When you can make this subtle yet important shift inside, you can allow the experience of seeing someone as your Twin Flame but not being able to be close to them, fall away, and attract the experience of being physically, emotionally and spiritually close with your Twin Flame.š
ššLast week I was talking about what keeps Unions away, it can be a fear of being with your person, or a fear of being with Love, if your Twin Flame is mirroring that, it's because you're one consciousness afraid to be with itself. the only reason we may be afraid to be with ourselves is if there was pain there. Self rejection, so the parts of us we've said, "No, that's what hurts us." So all you do is you just go be with them, you unlock a new cavern, a new area, and you just go in and say, "Oh gosh, I love myself there now." we can do it so much faster then we ever did before because we know exactly what's happened. And as you do that, you recognise that you're no longer rejecting yourself, and then you don't have that inner yearning for something missing. That's when your Twin Flame rocks up. So it's not really ever anything, you don't have to try and imagine them being with you, it's just you being with you.ā
ššAll that they're mirroring is those parts of you that you rejected which are the parts that you're missing. You just have to ask yourself where have you not wanted yourself, where have you been in a lot of pain? And you don't have to heal that to have your Union, but if you feel very rejected in these places sometimes it can keep Union away. It's really how we feel about romantic Love that keeps the Twin Flame away. If we're very hurt there, we need to focus there on the pain. Your Twin Flame can be around and you can have all these blocks, any you've currently got, and work through them with them. It's just the, "Where am I, romantically speaking, needing to heal myself? What have I experienced there? What have I pushed away within myself?" š·
š·šŗYou may be finding that the quality of your dreams has shifted for you just recently, ask what they mean for you, what's the Divine saying to you through them? Does it make sense for your journey? What do your dreams signify for you because not all of us need to have a dream like yours, so what does it mean for you? There may be a deeper level of vulnerability and openness being shown, as God made you, it may be a way for you to experience that closeness in a way that you need for your Union to come in. A kind of getting to know eachother in that way before physically coming together. Your Twin Flame is you so you are safe with them. If you're experiencing your Union in your dream, that's great, you're experiencing closeness. The Divine will be bringing it to you to help you with something. You are already with your Twin Flame, so you don't need to get closer, so to speak. appreciate the good signs coming from the Divine directly so you don't have to rely on signs and symbols, you can go straight to source and say, "Bring me a Twin Flame dream when it's appropriate and when it's going to help." And God does.š©°
ššBy pausing and asking the Divine and being present in our hearts, and letting go of what we think about what's going on, we can actually receive a communication from the Divine. It's the same when anything goes wrong in your like, or right in your life, what are you being shown? What does the Divine want you to heal and to learn? It's about having that communication with the Divine because the Divine is the Source of everything, your Union included. And the Divine is quite obviously, by sending you these dreams, getting you used to healthy romantic Love, bringing you closer and closer and closer to understanding how that feels, what the experience is like, and that's beautiful. Your dreams will be very on purpose, you'll know what they're coming for, they may have been coming up a long time, but now it's really time to have a chat with the Divine about it. You can feel what the feeling is there, but the Divine is saying, "No, I really want you to have that experience so you can get used to it, you know it's for you."š
šš¢The Divine is bringing a different teaching tool for each person depending on what they need. You may currently be experiencing becoming closer and more intimate in this way. Perhaps before, relationships were not giving you that so you couldn't have that experience or they were more focused on the mechanics, and now you're experiencing more of the lovingness, the closeness, the vulnerability, the intimacy. This is about not dreaming it anymore and having it in reality. No more dreaming about someone other than a current partner. There's only one person, certain things are important. Honour yourself, honour your heart, that's a big one, validate yourself. Slow it down, take your time to love yourself, check in with the Divine, what's the Divine showing you, what do you need to learn, and validating yourself. Transcending old relationships and then the Divine may take you off in a new direction. She has plans. All it takes is healing, it's about transcending the patterns and then everything falls into place, easily. And that's true of your Union, you're just chipping away and suddenly, wop, there it is. And it'll be effortless, but we can see it's taking a lot of time, a lot of healing.š„
š„šWhat a great Christmas this has been if it enabled you to go really deep, even if it was uncomfortable, this was exactly where you needed to go. Going deeper into these patterns is great, your Union is going to really love the healing. remember, your head is never leading everything when you're healing, you don't need to worry about synching your head and your heart when you're healing something, just go to the feeling. Drop into your heart, let the Divine guide the way, be present with your feelings. The antidote to the energy of unwantedness is your choice to release your relationship with unwantedness. Make a choice to let it go. Can you choose to claim yourself in this place? Choose to desire yourself, choose to love yourself, choose to commit to yourself, choose to claim yourself, that works as a good antidote. Repeat it again and again with everything that comes up, just choose yourself. Because if we're accessing parts of ourself that we feel aren't wanted, claiming ourselves is the antidote, desire for ourselves is the antidote. Does this part of you need anything else to feel loved? give it all the Love it needs.š§”
ššLet any parts of you that are hurting know that you claim them, that you choose them. You deserve to feel wanted, you deserve to feel claimed. The only reason for a third party or 'hairbrush' is just this place of rejection, where we rejected ourselves romantically, that's just what our Twin is going to mirror, so it's just time to go on and love love love these parts of us that have romantically experienced unwantedness. Maybe having been discarded, which is what narcissists do, discard, so that's why wanting ourselves and claiming ourselves is so important. It makes it clear why we have experienced that discarding pattern. This is the way to heal it so you never ever have to experience that discarding pattern again. As you go deeper and deeper with the healing you may hit a big patch of this unwantedness energy, and you'll have to work through it every time it comes up, bring in all the wantedness, all the desire, all the claiming, the choosing, the committing. That's really all it is, it's just romantic us coming home to Love.š
šµšWe've just locked parts of ourselves away, we protected ourselves and said no. There may have been a choice to not love from years ago, an energy of not wanting to do that again, to not go through that again, and the Twin Flame will reflect that, the pain of thinking you've lost your person. It's about going back in and choosing Love again, choosing to love again. Go to that part of you that felt unwanted, and give it Love. Remake that choice. Choose to release your relationship with guilt, the minute you notice it, let it go, what can you receive in its place? Love, peace, compassion, this is such a simple yet effective way of healing, any feelings of unwantedness, you'll be able to move through them easily. Your Twin's only reflecting how you feel about you. If you're avoiding and compartmentalising, you may find your Twin's built a life based on compartmentalisation, not thinking they can have what they desire either. You can have it all. you only need to ask and relax and let it be brought to you.š
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