š§”šIf one looks at their Twin Flame and tries to get something from them, that's an attachment. When one attaches to them and tries to get in that way, one is saying, "I need to go outside of myself to get Love from this person," and one of the mains reasons one manifests a third party is going outside of themselves to get Love from the outside, that reinforces third parties or 'hairbrushes.' When we know that the Divine is our Source, we know that the Divine completes everything that we need from within, and then we don't look on the outside at all, that's not the right place to look. And so, when we stop looking outside, we're connected to the Divine as our Ultimate Lover.š
šš»Many people may believe that when they're letting go of needing something from their Twin, They're letting go of Love, because they've put Love out there. The reason there is a reaching, is because one may believe that Love is out there, and if they let go of it, they let go of Love, they've lost Love. That's what makes one keep hanging on, it's not out there, there isn't another person. Your heart is the container for your Union, everything you need the Divine can fulfil. So even those kind of 5D experiences are still looking outside of yourself. We all start off on the journey with the idea that we have this other person that we need to convince or grab hold of, or get to be with us, and the deeper we go the more we discover that they're not going to do what we want them to, they're going to do the opposite, and the more we look, the less things seem to be helping, and it really is just the invitation to completely surrender. It doesn't mean letting go of Love, it means releasing and letting the Divine be our lover.š
š±šµSo no more fixating on the outside, not even the 5D, we don't have to do any of that, just be with the Divine. You still desire your person, you just don't need to attach to what's happening. You don't need to hold onto Love to keep it with you. You can't lose Love, Love can't leave you. You and Love are one, you can't be separated from Love, it's not outside of you, it's entirely within you. How does it feel to let go of what was thought to be the source on the outside? Can you make the choice to let go? Your Twin Flame cannot be separated from you ever, ground into the Truth, you and your Twin Flame can't actually ever be separate. The illusion of separation is nothing but we have such a thing as an illusion because ego's agenda is to keep us separate from the Divine. The belief in separation, and one gives their power away to the belief that they are separate from Love, which makes us cling as well. So it's all coming from the same core upset, the fear of being separate from Love, that separation has power when it does not.š“
ššTap into the Love from the place within you where all Love stems from, your Love was here all along, it's not in somebody else, there is no external rescue, it's an inner job. Give yourself lots of compassion, understanding, gentleness, return to the core, Love is within. Choose to take back your power, acknowledge that Love is within. Bring Love to all the places that feel separate, even if you go deeper and feel like you've opened a whole new can of worms. You're going deeper into new territory, the new places in consciousness are going to feel tender, just go in, show up for and be present with yourself and your feelings. This is focusing on the core upset, be very attentive, very present. The Divine has brought many a wall in peoples' consciousness, if you're feeling a bit stuck, just invite the Divine in, She'll show you what to do.š
ššAcknowledge your Oneness with Love, that's the Truth, anything less is illusion, how does it feel to know you're One with Love? Your foundation is Love, It's the Divine Truth, the universal Truth that you are a Divine child, created from Love, living in a world made of Love, that can never change. All your desires were placed there by the Divine for the Divine to fulfil with you. You're not in a booby trap place that you have to escape, it's a place of Love and peace, choose to receive Love and peace in this place. Good is the natural order, so if there is a crisis it's the result in a belief in fear, and you can choose whether you want to be part of that or not. Choose to be with the Divine and respect yourself, say no to the invitation of fear. Everything comes from the foundation that Love is the Truth and your way forward must align with Love. It'll be easy and effortless because it's the Divine's way.š
šš Practice self forgiveness, letting go, realising there are no mistakes, have compassion for yourself, knowing that you're lovable, there's nothing the Divine can't sort out. Choose to release control, it's not your job to find the answers, that's the Divine's job, your job is simply to love yourself, how does it feel to know you've got all the Divine's support? This is how you learn to work with the Divine. Wherever you're at now is not the final destination, it's just a stepping stone on the journey, it's safe to receive all the gifts and move forward, taking them with you. The healing is just reframing where we've misaligned within, where we believed in fear and illusion, and tweaking, bringing ourselves back into Love. You're safe, everything's OK, nothing can really go wrong, there are no mistakes, it's just your journey. The Divine knows every step of it, it's orchestrated, it's meant to be the way it is, it's teaching you something vital.š
ššAgain, the Divine is orchestrating each of our journeys uniquely for us, each challenge that arises is the perfect one to move through for your Union. It all fits together like a beautiful puzzle. Each piece is perfect, even though it looks so random, it's all interconnected. Choose to ground and integrate that Oneness within you. How to invite Love in? Know that the Divine is the Source of all the Love, all the partnership, all the intimacy, all the togetherness and Union and everything you need, teacher, student, lover, best friend, partner. Choose to invite the Divine into partnership with you, all you have to do is ask. The Divine can't override our free will, and that's why we don't seem to have what we want, we've not yet claimed it, chosen it, The Divine is here saying, "I'm here, just choose Me." You can choose and claim Divine partnership with God in every area of your life, feel that partnering, it always shows up, without fail. There's nothing more to it, it's simply you choosing and claiming partnership, and the Divine will partner with you by being in your heart. Simply bring Love into yourself and that Love translates into your next step.š·
ššJust choose it and claim it and you may have to do that many times because there may be many places within where we've not chosen it. Don't be afraid ever, to do that, and with each choice we make, it's going to bring up an old pattern of not choosing partnership. One needs to be aware when that comes up, you make the choice and then you need to follow it through by aligning with that choice. It's so important, and now you've chosen partnership with the Divine it means inviting Her into every area of your life, recognising that you have a relationship to build there, and as you do that, you do that within your Union too. The Divine is your Union, She brings you in within yourself, brings you back into self. Less on the outside, more on the inside. Everything is there for you, be your own hero, we do rescue ourselves from separation. No conditions, the Divine just loves, nothing is expected in return. We pay for our Union by practicing self Love and loving. We commit our time, we show up for ourselves, we experience the highs and lows, we're kept awake at night, that's how we get back into the Kingdom.š„
šš„We have to undo the choices of separation, it's about you choosing to be with yourself because you need Love in the place that's hurting. It's reframing it, it's never going to be because of something outside of you because it's always something inside, and the answer is always Love. If you don't know how to address it, bring the Divine in, let the Divine heal it with you, and when you love you that's you loving the Divine and your Twin, it's multipurpose, and that's how you heal your entire Union, by showing up again and again and again. Decluttering the mind, the energy body, and guess what happens? Your reality shifts. Just feel those feeling's don't be afraid. It's an ongoing process, we go deeper and deeper, it's gentle, it's compassionate, always kind. You deserve to be treated very well, very respectfully. Just us coming back to ourselves, so much energy goes into flinging it out into the world, we don't always think about what we're doing but we need to bring our power back and recognise the Divine is everything, the Divine didn't leave us, we're not lacking in any way so we just need to show up and claim. If you need more partnership, intimacy and closeness, just claim that within and watch that part of you transform.šŖ
ššThis is deep stuff, really getting into some really juicy topics where we really can see some long standing patterns where we really are getting to grips with why they're still there and what we're going to do about them, taking responsibility. Because that's all it takes, the minute we take responsibility for a pattern, we have the power to heal it. It takes courage, not everyone's doing that. Just honour yourself, you're unstoppable. Surrender is not giving up. Giving up means no longer pursuing something and withdrawing one's energy completely, it's no longer choosing. Letting go, on the other hand, is saying, "I choose my Harmonious Union, my choice is clear and I let go of seeking that outside of myself and I recognise that my Harmonious Union is how I was created, it's innately who I am." You can't lose who you are, you can't lose how you were created. The choice is totally safe, claim your Harmonious Union. We're saying, "I choose my Harmonious Union and I choose to have the Divine as my Ultimate Lover." That means recognising the Divine as where all the Love is coming from, not anywhere outside. It's the Divine through your Twin Flame and others.š»
šš±Recognising that Love is the feeling within your heart, that's the Divine, that's why one is pursuing the Union, because one fell in love with the Divine. It's only and ego trick that says, "Oh, if you let go, that's it." You can't let go of yourself, your Twin is you. There's no need to try to control your feelings, it's OK to acknowledge that there are very deeply hurt places within us. Your Union requires that courage and sensitivity to be able to heal, Your Twin honours, loves and respects you as you do that. When you choose Union, you scoop up all of your unconscious stuff, and some of it looks not very nice. some of these patterns you're going to look at and feel like you can't even be in the same room as your Twin Flame because it's too upsetting, too frightening, whatever, but that's what you're both healing together. You must walk through those places of severe trauma, severe fear, upset, and each time you do you heal that place. So you don't have to control your feelings any longer, you just have to meet yourself in these places, just love yourself.šµ
š“šThis is the beauty of the journey, you learn to love yourself fully, completely and eternally. This is how you develop intimacy in your Union. So when you sit together and bring up any conversation that brings up trauma, you'll be able to sit there and say, "Right, I'm going to do some crying and I'm going to do some healing and you're going to watch me, and I'm going to move through this fast." That's Love, real Love. That's what we desire, so if the trauma and the fear and the pain is still a bit sharp, keep healing, keep making a new choice, keep soothing, keep bringing Love and compassion. Eventually the fear, that charge drops away, that pattern is gone. We do a thorough clean up, declutter. This is your Union healing, showing up in the area with less resistance first. It develops confidence and faith, and then you can work through these really sensitive areas. Just the willingness to feel your feelings is enough. That's being with the Divine, being with your Twin. We don't want to cut corners, just keep giving yourself gentleness, Love, a steady stream of it.š
ššNotice how that builds a foundation of safety, knowing when you show up for yourself, kindly and lovingly, then your Twin Flame
can come in. Vulnerability is really our strength, our beauty and our authenticity. Love is vulnerable, you can't have Love without openness. You are Divine, you have a Divine Parent who created you worthy. You don't have to fight for your good, it's got your name on it, nobody else's. It's for you, your Twin is for you, your life, your desires, your dreams are for you, they're not for someone else, they don't fit anybody else. So you can honour them, keep that energy within. No need to go outside and fight to try and create that life, you can let go. Forget all about control, let the Divine do Her job. The Divine knows your journey intimately. Nothing's going to stop this, it happens at the pace that feels compassionate for us. We can go faster if you want, we can also slow down a bit. You're protected, you're safe, there is only the Divine, there is only Love, your Union is already yours, you don't need to get it, we're just revealing the awareness that it was there all along.š
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